Preparing a Three minute Testimony
Easy Steps to Give Your Testimony
The Reason In 1 Peter 3:15, we are called to “…sanctify (set apart) the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear…”
One of the most effective ways to be ready to give that defense is to be prepared ahead of time in case someone asks you why your life is different than theirs or what makes you different than others they know or in case God just brings someone who needs to hear.
You may have heard it said that you are a living letter for Jesus, a letter written not with ink and paper buy crafted by the Holy Spirit on the pages of your heart and life, (2 Cor 3:3) and your letter may be all of the Gospel that someone may ever read. Sometimes you share by your everyday life and sometimes with words! The three minute testimony has much benefit.
The three minute idea causes thoughts to be concise and keeps in mind the listener and how long they might be attentive and it helps in leaving out things that are not critical to your story.
The Purpose In preparing a brief and precise account of your own personal story of conversion and why you have hope, you have the help you need to simply and clearly share the interesting details of how, when and why you gave your life to Christ. This serves as a “door opener,” not to be used to “convince” someone they need Jesus, but a means of getting people interested in thinking about Jesus and creating an openness to talking about Him after hearing what He’s done for us.
A Biblical Example In Acts 25 and 26 we find the Apostle Paul being brought before King Agrippa and the king said to Paul, “You are permitted to speak for yourself.” As Paul spoke, his words were simple, logical and clear indicating his life before he met Christ, how he met Christ and what his life was like after Christ. He stood there to give a defense of the hope that was in him. His account of his conversion takes about three minutes to read aloud. You might read this account and use it as a guide for writing your own account of things.
The Contents – there are four main parts to your three minute testimony
1st Minute – Before meeting Jesus – a brief general statement of what your life was like before you met Jesus. These are general facts; no gross details necessary. I was addicted, I was an alcoholic, etc; these actions stemming from deep inner unmet needs. Things like – no purpose, no friends, feeling unloved, loneliness, meaninglessness to life, fear.
2nd Minute – How you met Jesus – this is where you would state the events and circumstances that brought about your conversion; the steps you took, a verse of Scripture that hit home, if something miraculous happened or perhaps the answered prayer. Paul’s witnessing of the brilliant light while traveling is an example of that.
You would want to include the gospel here – all have sinned, sin’s penalty, Jesus paid that penalty, must receive Jesus.
3rd Minute – After meeting Jesus – again a brief description of how your life has changed, what a difference He has made in your life, how He has filled the deep needs you had prior to becoming a Christian. Perhaps how you’ve found purpose in life in living for Jesus, and how you’d never change or go back to the old way of life. You might share how life isn’t perfect and never will be, and there are difficulties – like Paul experienced, but instead of bitterness there is joy, instead of emptiness there is life, instead of fear there is peace, but that there are no regrets for having made this decision. Most importantly that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you know that you have eternal life.
Call to Action – Ask them to take some form of action with you, perhaps it’s to attend church with you. You might even agree to pick them up and take them with you or meet them there. You might ask them how you might pray with them and even better ask them if they would pray with you to accept Jesus.
The Prayer God, I confess that I am a sinner, I am in need of a Savior, forgive me for my sins, come into my heart and fill me with Your Holy Spirit.
Helpful Hints to Writing
Pray that the Holy Spirit will guide you as you compile your testimony.
It’s not necessary to memorize the whole thing word for word, but perhaps memorizing key words and their order so your account is fluid and transitional.
Keep within the three minute time limit
Boldly speak about Jesus because He is the most important element of your testimony.
You might consider beginning your testimony with an attention getting sentence or story.
Be positive all the way through your account from beginning to the end and perhaps include the humorous too.
Be accurate – edit and rewrite if necessary.
The C.S. Lewis Institute offers the following tips for writing your three minute testimony.
- Make it sound conversational. Avoid literary sounding statements. Use informal language.
- Share about what happened to you, don’t preach about what should happen to them. Say “I” and “me,” not “you.” This helps keep the testimony warm and personal.
- Avoid religious words, phrases, and jargon.
Don’t assume the listener knows what you mean by terms such as sin, accepted Christ, or even Christian.
- Generalize so more people can identify with your story. Don’t name specific churches, denominations, or groups. Avoid using dates and ages.
- Include some humor and human interest.
When a person smiles or laughs, it reduces tension. Humor is disarming and increases attention.
- One or two word pictures increase interest.
Don’t just say, “Bill shared the gospel with me.” You might briefly describe the setting so a person listening can visualize it.
- Explain how Christ met or is meeting your deep inner needs, but do not communicate that all your struggles and problems ended at conversion.
- Sound adult, not juvenile. Reflect an adult point of view even if you were converted at an early age.
- Avoid dogmatic and mystical statements that skeptics can question, such as, “I prayed and God gave me a job,” or “God said to me.”
- Simplify—reduce “clutter.”
Remember that it is a privilege and an honor to share the things that Jesus has done for you with someone, to make the defense and give an account for your hope and faith. This is the work that God’s words goes forth to accomplish and doesn’t come back void in its mission.
Remember too that the accuser of the brethren – Satan – has been cast down and, “They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death.” Revelation 12:10-11
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To Drink or Not to Drink
To Drink or Not to Drink: By Norman Geisler
A Sober Look at the Question
The Main Points
- The Bible condemns using strong alcoholic beverages and drunkenness.
- In Bible times, they used light alcoholic beverages in moderation.
- Today, given the many harmful results of alcohol and the many non-alcoholic alternatives, total abstinence is the best policy.
Many Reasons Not to Drink (or use other addictive drugs)
- It is Condemned
- The Bible Condemns Strong Drink as a beverage.
- Today’s Beer and Wine are Strong Drink.
- Hence, Today’s Beer and Wine are Condemned by the Bible as a beverage.
- We Should not do What God Condemns.
- Therefore, we should not drink today’s beer and wine as a beverage.
Bible Condemns Intoxicating Drinks
“Wine is a mocker [yayin], intoxicating drink [shekar] arouses brawling, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise” (Prov. 20:1).
“Do not look on wine [yayin] when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when is swirls around smoothly. At last it bites like a serpent, and stings like a viper” (Prov. 23:31-32).
“Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints?…Those who linger over wine (Prov. 23:29-30).
“Give strong drink [shekar] to him who is dying…” (Prov. 31:6).
“Woe to those who rise early in the morning, That they may follow strong drink; Who continue until night till wine inflames them” (Isa. 5:11).
“Strong drink is bitter to those who drink it” (Isa. 24:9).
“Woe to men valiant for mixing strong drink” (Isa. 5:22).
“But they [the priests and prophets] have also erred through wine, And through strong drink are out of the way” (Isa. 28:7 cf. 56:12).
Only false prophets say: “I will prophesy to you of wine and strong drink” (Micah 2:11).
“Do not drink wine (yayin) or intoxicating drink (shekar), you, nor your sons with you, when you go into the tabernacle of meeting lest, you die” (Lev. 10:9 NKJV).
“When a man or a women makes a special vow, the vow of a Nazirite, to dedicate himself to the Lord, he shall abstain from wine yayin) and strong drink” (shekar) (Num. 6:2-3 NASB).
To Samson: “Now drink no wine or strong drink…” (Jud. 13:7).
To Kings: “It is not for kings, O Lemeul, It is not kingd to drink wine, Nor for princes strong drink” (Prov. 31:4)
To all Israel (in the wilderness): “You have not drunk wine [yayin] or strong drink [shekar]; that you may know that I am the LORD your God” (Deut. 29:6).
Note:
1) Total abstinence from strong drink was God’s norm for all believers;
2) Total abstinence from all wine was the ideal for all believers, and
3) was exemplified by spiritual leaders
Drunkenness is Not the Only Reason to Abstain from Alcohol
- It slows the thinking process (Prov. 31:4-5).
- It makes one dizzy (Job. 12:25).
- It is associated with self-centeredness (Hab. 2:5).
- It causes sickness (Jer. 25:27).
- It causes forgetfulness (Prov. 31:6-7).
- It produces delirious dreams (Prov. 23:33).
- It results in sleepiness (Gen. 9:20-25).
- It produces complacence and laziness (Zeph. 1:12).
- It numbs one’s feelings (Prov. 23:31-35).
- It leads to poverty (Prov. 21:17).
- It leads to brokenness (Jer. 23:9).
- It results in sadness and depression (Isa. 16:9-10).
- It causes sorrow (Prov. 23:29-30).
- It produces blackouts (Gen. 19:33-35).
- It leads to immorality (Joel 3:3).
- It encourages sexual perversion (Hab. 2:15).
- It results in guilt (Isa. 24:20).
- It causes injuries (Prov. 23:35).
- It can result in insanity (Jer. 51:7).
- It makes one vulnerable to his enemies (1 Sam. 13:28).
Beer and Wine are Strong Drink
Biblical wine was fermented but diluted 3 to 1.
Jewish Talmud: Passover wine was 3 parts water to 1 part of wine (Pesahim 108a cf. Shabbath 77a)
Inter-testamental Period: “It is harmful to drink wine alone, or, again, to drink water alone, while wine mixed with water is sweet and delicious…” (2 Mac. 15:39).
Some Pagan Mixtures:
Homer: 20 to 1
Pliny 8 to 1 (See Stein, “Wine Drinking in NT Times” Chirstianity Today, 6/20/75).
At 3 to 1 ratio it took 22 glasses of NT wine to get drunk
It was basically a means to purify and sweeten water.
Ancient Wine Mixing With Water “In ancient times wine was usually stored in large pointed jugs called amphorae. When wine was to be used it was poured from the amphorae into large bowls called kraters, where it was mixed with water…. From these kraters, cups or kylix were then filled” (Stein, “Wine-Drinking in NT….”
Taking Unmixed (Today’s) Wine Was Considered Barbarian by Pagans!
Mnesitheus of Athens said: “Mix it half and half, and you get madness; unmixed, bodily collapse”!
Early Church Father Cyprian: “Thus, therefore, in considering the cup of the Lord, water alone cannot be offered, even as wine alone cannot be offered” (Epist. 62.2.11)
Clement of Alexandria added: “It is best for the wine to be mixed with as much water as possible…” (Instructor 2.2).
- It is Condemned
- The Bible Condemns Strong Drink as a beverage.
- Today’s Beer and Wine are Strong Drink.
- Hence, Today’s Beer and Wine are Condemned by the Bible as a beverage.
- We Should not do What God Condemns.
- Therefore, we should not drink today’s beer and wine as a beverage.
- It is Deadly
- We Should not take what is Deadly.
- Taking Alcohol is Deadly.
- Hence, we should not take Alcohol.
Evidence that taking Alcohol is Deadly
- It causes more deaths than any other drug (about 200,000 per year).
- It is responsible for 70% of drownings & chokings.
- It is involved in 50% of all “freak accidents.”
- It causes some 27,000 deaths a year by liver disease.
- 30% of all suicides are alcohol related.
- 20% of all airplane crashes are alcohol related.
- 50% of all murders are drunk when they kill.
- 50% of all fire deaths are alcohol related.
- It causes about a third of all traffic deaths (It would be higher, if blood test were given to the dead too). (Statistics are based on US government reports)
III. It is Dangerous
- We Should Not do What is Dangerous to Society.
- Drinking alcohol is Dangerous to Society.
- Hence, We Should not Drink Alcohol.
Evidence that drinking Alcohol is Dangerous
- It contributes to more deaths than any other drug.
- It leads to drug addiction (18 mill in US=8.5% of population).
- It is involved in both spouse and child abuse.
- It contributes to mental and physical diseases.
- 45% of the homeless are alcoholics.
- It causes 500,000 injuries per year.
During Prohibition (1920-1933): social ills decreased!
Cirrhosis dropped 66%
Insanity decreased 60%
Arrest for drunk and disorderly conduct decreased 50%.
Spouse and child abuse dropped to an all-time low.
Addiction & consumption decreased for 55 years (up to 1975).
- It is Addictive
- We Should Avoid Addictive Drugs.
- Alcohol is an Addictive Drug.
- There are 16 million addicts in the US.
- Alcoholics outnumber all other addicts.
- 77% of high schoolers use alcohol.
- 29% of high schoolers drink heavily.
- 44% of 8th graders drink.
- 1 in 10 social drinkers will become addicts
Question: Would you get on an airplane if there was a 10% chance it would crash?
- We should avoid alcohol.
- It is Unhealthy
- We Should Avoid Drinking What is Bad for our Health.
- Drinking Alcohol is Bad for our Health.
- So, We Should Avoid Drinking Alcohol.
Proof that drinking Alcohol is Bad for One’s Health
- It is the number three health problem.
- It results in 1/2 million hospital admissions.
- It impairs the function of vital organs.
- It causes liver diseases.
- It contributes to heart attacks.
- It increases the chances of cancer 3-6 times.
- It is the number three cause of birth defects.
- It can cause insanity.
- It can injure the nervous system.
- It can cause impotence and sterility.
It is Unhealthy
- We Should Avoid Addictive Drugs.
- Alcohol is an Addictive Drug.
- So, We Should Avoid Alcohol.
- It is Costly
- We Should Not Do What is Unnecessarily Costly to Society.
- Drinking Alcohol is Unnecessarily Costly to Society.
- Hence, We Should Not Drink Alcohol.
Evidence that alcohol is Unnecessarily Costly
- Special services $7 billion a year.
- Medical services $19 billion a year.
- Loss of future earnings by death is $37billion.
- Alcohol related illness is $86 billion.
- Fetal alcohol syndrome is $1 billion.
- Loss of earnings of crime victims $10 billion.
- Crashes, fires, and crime is $24 billion.
- Total cost of alcohol abuse is over $184 billion.
VII. It is a Bad Example
- We Should not be a Bad Example.
- Drinking Alcohol is a Bad Example.
- Hence, We Should Not Drink Alcohol.
Note:
1) Children are imitators, and if we take addictive drugs, then they will imitate us.
2) They won’t do what we say but what we do.
3) We won’t convince them to stop their drugs until we stop using our drug (which is worse).
VIII. It is not Edifying
- What is not Edifying Should be Avoided.
- Drinking Alcohol is not Edifying.
- Drinking Alcohol Should be Avoided.
Paul wrote: “All things are lawful, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful, but all things do not edify (build up). All things are lawful, but I will not be brought under the mastery of any”(1Cor. 6:12).
- It Causes Others to Stumble
- What Causes Others to Stumble Should be Shunned.
- Drinking Alcohol Causes Others to Stumble.
- So, Drinking Alcohol Should be Shunned.
Paul said: “It is good neither to eat meat nor to drink [diluted] wine, nor anything by which your brother stumbles…”(Rom. 14:21).
Of course, strong (undiluted) wine is forbidden.
- It is Unnecessary
- We Should Avoid Doing Harmful Things That Are Unnecessary.
- Drinking Alcohol is a Harmful Thing That is Unnecessary.
- We Should Avoid Drinking Alcohol.
Note: We have plenty of good drinks that are not as harmful–water, milk, fruit juices, coffee, tea, and others.
Conclusion
- Even one good reason is a good reason not to drink alcohol.
- Two or more reasons are very good reasons not to drink it.
- Ten reasons are overwhelmingly good reasons not to drink it.
Hence,
1) We encourage all Christians not to drink it.
2) We require all church leaders not to drink it. (Not because it makes you more spiritual but because it manifests your commitment and maturity
If God Didn’t Want Us to Drink It, Why Did He Make it?
- It is a sedative (Prov. 31:6): “Give beer to those who are perishing, wine to those who are in anguish.”
- It revives the faint (2 Sam. 6:2): “The donkeys are for the king’s household to ride on, the bread and fruit are for the men to eat, and the wine is to refresh those who become exhausted in the desert.”
- It is an antiseptic (Lk. 10:34): “He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn….” took care of him.”
- It is a laxative (1 Tim. 5:23): “Stop drinking only water, and use a little [diluted] wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.”
Answering Some Objections
Objection 1: The Bible only condemns drunkenness, not taking strong drinks.
Answer: Not so. One of the reasons it condemns strong drink is because it leads to drunkenness, but it is not the only reason. Strong drink itself is condemned.
It is also addictive and harmful in many other ways (physically, emotionally, psychologically, and socially).
Objection 2: Doesn’t the Bible actually commend using strong drink as a beverage in Deut. 14:26: “And you shall spend that money for whatever you heart desires: for oxen or sheep, for wine [yayin] or strong drink
[shekar], for whatever your heart desires; you shall eat there before the LORD your God, and you shall rejoice with your household.”Answer:
1) OT condemns strong drink as a beverage (see X).
2) Unclear texts like these should not be used to contradict clear ones.
3) It was bought in strong (undiluted) form for ease in travel and storage, and for use as a medicine–not to drink as such.
4) Whatever drinking they did was in diluted form (see I).
5) In whatever form, the use here was specifically for a Jewish festival and is not a norm for general consumption.
Objection 3: It is legalistic to make extra-biblical laws like total abstinence which the Bible does not make.
Answer: It is not extra-biblical since the Bible condemns “strong drink,” and today’s alcohol drinks are “strong drink.”
Further, not every extra-biblical rule is legalistic–only those used as a condition for meriting God’s grace, whether for getting justification or sanctification.
Objection 4: The Bible says it is OK to take a “little” wine (1 Tim. 5:23) as long as it is not too “much” (1Tim. 3:8); It does not teach total abstinence.
Answer: It is speaking about a “little” and not “much” diluted wine [Hb.: yayin], not the undiluted intoxicants [Hb.: shekar] such as wine, beer, and whiskey which people drink today. We should totally abstain from these.
Objection 5: What about nicotine and gluttony? Aren’t they addictive and destructive too.
Answer: Yes, but we must eat food to live, but we do not need to drink alcohol to live.
Nonetheless, Christians should avoid all nicotine (since it causes cancer) and all gluttony (since obesity is harmful to one’s health).
Objection 6: What about studies which show that regular use of alcohol helps prevent heart disease (by increasing good cholesterol)?
Answer:
- They have shown a statistical connection, not a causal one. It is also known that “statistics lie, and liars use statistics.”
- It may be due to antioxidants present, not the alcohol.
- Other studies show grape juice has similar results.
- Even the statistically favorable studies admit there may be other genetic and environmental factors at play.
- The American Heart Association does not recommend it.
- There are other non-alcoholic methods, such as diet, exercise, and non-addictive drugs that can be used.
- The end doesn’t justify the means–if they are wrong (e.g., stem cells from abortion or alcohol for pregnant women’s hearts).
- It is a fact that non-drinkers live longer (52% vs. 40% live to 75+).
Objection 7: It makes me relax and feel better.
Answer: Don’t make your happiness depend on addictive drugs. It is both deceptive and dangerous.
If you want a high without a hangover: “Do not be drunk with wine in which is excess; but be filled with the Holy Spirit” (Eph. 5:18).
Objection 8: I need it for my nerves.
Answer: There are non-addictive diets and drugs that can help your nerves.
Better yet–try God’s plan: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, and the peace of God which passes all understanding will keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus”(Phil. 4:6-7).
Total Abstinence is the Best Policy
No one ever had the following alcohol related consequences who refused the first drink:
No one ever got drunk without the first drink,
Nor got an addiction to it w/o the first drink,
Nor got a disease from it including: heart attacks, cirhossis, insanity,
Nor engaged in spouse or child abuse DUI of it,
Nor killed anyone in an accident DUI of it,
Nor caused any debt or injury DUI of it,
Nor caused anyone to stumble in their faith!
The Main Points
- The Bible condemns using strong alcoholic beverages and drunkenness.
- In Bible times, they used light alcoholic beverages in moderation.
- Today, given the many harmful results of alcohol and the many non-alcoholic alternatives, total abstinence is the best policy.
No Temptation is Too Strong!
“No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it” (1Cor. 10:13).
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“Hearing God”: A Biblical Case?
Sometimes I am asked to provide a biblical case for my belief that everyday believers can regularly hear God speak to them in various ways. Here, in précis form, is an overview of my answer (for more on this discussion see my book, Kingdom Triangle, along with my co-authored book with Klaus Issler, In Search of a Confident Faith):
1) Ancient Near Eastern historical narrative/biography functioned not merely to chronicle events, but to teach theology/ethics. Much of the Bible is this genre and a central theme of Holy Scripture is how we are/are not to relate to God and each other as members of His covenant people. Thus, the examples of God speaking to people (including ordinary people—Gen 25:23, Acts 6:5, and 8:6, Acts 19:1-7, esp. v. 6) throughout both Testaments are meant to teach us how we can expect God to speak (without, of course, expecting God to continue to give authoritative scripture to the whole church).
2) God deeply desires intimacy and relationship with his people (cf. Isaiah 58:9-11; Hosea 11:8), and these characteristics obtain among people—human or divine—by regularly speaking to each other. The Bible is an authoritative revelation to the whole church, but intimacy and relationship require personal communication in addition to this.
3) God speaks to people to correct wrong thinking (Phil 3:15; cf. Eph 1:17, I Cor 14:24, 26, 30-31).
4) The Holy Spirit speaks to us in applying the Bible’s teaching to our specific situation (I Cor 2:14).
5) God speaks to us to give us guidance (Isaiah 30:21, John 10:3,4,16,27, Acts 13:2, 16:6, James 1:5). In the John texts, Jesus says his sheep hear his voice. Some have understood the context to imply that this means that the unsaved hear God’s effectual call to come to salvation. But this has the odd result that we can hear God’s speech/drawing/prompting before we are saved but not afterwards. In fact, the alleged context in John 10 (of unbelievers being called to salvation) can be taken in one of two ways: it defines the meaning of the sheep hearing Jesus’ voice (thus, limiting the text’s meaning to unbelievers) or it determines a range of application in this context (to unbelievers) of a broader principle that applies to all God’s sheep whether before or after salvation. The text does not make clear which is intended, and the latter fits other passages I am citing, the virtually universal experience of Christians, and it avoids the odd result mentioned above.
6) Jesus is our model in communicating with God (John 5:19). Jesus is not speaking about His unique prerogative as God or Messiah, because the context is Jesus doing the works of the Father due to Jesus’ intimate communication with Him (and subsequent empowerment by the Holy Spirit), and Jesus explicitly says that we will do greater works than he did (John 14:12). If Jesus needed to be lead by the Father in this, how much more do we? Moreover, it is now widely acknowledged by NT scholars that Jesus did what he did as a human being we are to model ourselves after in dependence on the filling of the Holy Spirit and in communication with the Father (cf. I Cor 11:1, I Thes 1:6). Finally, Jesus delegated his authority to us and we need the same tools he needed to carry out that delegation.
7) God sometimes speaks by placing impressions in our minds (Nehemiah 2:12) and through a still small voice (I Kings 19:12).
8) Regarding the claim that when God speaks, it is clear and we don’t have to learn to hear his voice, (A) it seems that Samuel needed to learn to distinguish/hear God’s voice (I Sam 3:1-21); (B) there was a school of prophets in the Old Testament and, among other things, it would seem natural to think that they were learning to discern/hear God’s voice; (C) In the NT, prophesy is a gift that, as will other gifts like teaching or evangelism, grows and develops with time and experience as one learn to enter more fully into the practice of that gift. That is why there were tests of prophesy (I Cor 14:29, I Thes 5:19-22), viz., that as people learned to hear God, they sometimes made mistakes and gave words sincerely though they were mistaken. (D) We have to learn God’s most authoritative speech, the Bible, through hermeneutics, exegetical practice and so forth, and many believers are mistaken about what exactly is God’s biblical speech (in debates in textual criticism and differences between Catholics and Protestants about which books belong in the canon). If God has allowed there to be differences about what belongs in Holy Scripture and we have to work hard to learn to rightly divide it, why can’t there be differences about whether a personal communication was/was not from God and effort needed to learn how to understand such communication?
Posted by: J.P. Moreland
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What is Generational Sin?
Generational sin
Exodus 20:4-6 (NKJV)
4 “You shall not make for yourself a carved image—any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth;
5 you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me,
6 but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.
Bad interpretation
It is typically taught from Exodus 20, which is the Ten Commandments. Someone teaches that “the sins of the fathers are visited on the children to the third and fourth generation.” What this is commonly said to mean is that you may have ancestral curses because of the activities of your fathers, your ancestors. Usually, these activities have to do with extreme sin or occult involvement, but it may also be having an abortion. This then results in something bad happening to an individual because of this other person’s sinful activity.
The application of this is that someone is going through something really hard and has a besetting sin or problem that they can’t get rid of, and it is suggested to them that there is a spiritual dynamic that is tied to the teaching of this verse. There is a generational sin and curse that then must be broken. It is qualified that through some spiritual exercise or prayer the person can be free from this curse. Some have gone to great extent, written whole books, on how to unwind this spiritual oppression coming from past generations. They step you through all these little exercises. However they are mistaken.
Let’s look at the Scripture again
Who is doing the visiting?
Let’s break down the scripture to get a proper interpretation. The visiting of the sins of the father on the children, who is the active agent? It is God, right? God is doing the visiting. So, if you have a technique to undo this activity, who are you fighting against? You would be fighting against God.
Visiting the iniquity is not causing a person to sin
Visiting the iniquity cannot mean a curse or sin that is passed down from generation to generation. That would make God the cause of that person’s sin. God does not cause people to sin nor does He tempt them.
James 1:13-14 (NKJV)
13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone.
14 But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed.
This could not be a curse on Christians. Look at the qualifier. This punishment is on those who “hate me”. Do Christians fall into the category of people who hate God? No, of course not. Think about it. Would God cause a Christian or even a non-Christian to sin? Would He punish a person for what their parent or grand parent did?
God does not punish children for the sins of the parents
Deuteronomy 24:16 (NKJV)
16 “Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor shall children be put to death for their fathers; a person shall be put to death for his own sin.
God addresses this false notion in Ezekiel.
Ezekiel 18:20 (NKJV)
20 The soul who sins shall die. The son shall not bear the guilt of the father, nor the father bear the guilt of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself.
What then does visiting the iniquity mean in this context and the rest of the Bible? It means that God is punishing someone. Who does He punish? He punishes those who hate Him. God punishes those who continually break the second commandment that one should not worship any other god especially an idol.
Remember in context these are the commandments that God is giving to Israel. In context this is a covenant with the Jews.
Therefore God is punishing a nation.
He is not perpetuating a sin from one generation to the next. God even gives them an example in this very book of visiting
Deuteronomy 11:16-17 (NKJV)
16 Take heed to yourselves, lest your heart be deceived, and you turn aside and serve other gods and worship them,
17 lest the Lord’s anger be aroused against you, and He shut up the heavens so that there be no rain, and the land yield no produce, and you perish quickly from the good land which the Lord is giving you.
When a nation is punished every living generation is affected from the father to the great grandson.
We have other Scripture confirming our interpretation of this verse. Look at Ex. 32:34.
Exodus 32:34 (NKJV)
34 Now therefore, go, lead the people to the place of which I have spoken to you. Behold, My Angel shall go before you. Nevertheless, in the day when I visit for punishment, I will visit punishment upon them for their sin.”
Look at the preceding verse. God does visit punishment on people but for their sin not another’s sin.
Deuteronomy 23:1-8 (NKJV)
1 “He who is emasculated by crushing or mutilation shall not enter the assembly of the Lord.
2 “One of illegitimate birth shall not enter the assembly of the Lord; even to the tenth generation none of his descendants shall enter the assembly of the Lord.
3 “An Ammonite or Moabite shall not enter the assembly of the Lord; even to the tenth generation none of his descendants shall enter the assembly of the Lord forever,
4 because they did not meet you with bread and water on the road when you came out of Egypt, and because they hired against you Balaam the son of Beor from Pethor of Mesopotamia, to curse you.
5 Nevertheless the Lord your God would not listen to Balaam, but the Lord your God turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the Lord your God loves you.
6 You shall not seek their peace nor their prosperity all your days forever.
7 “You shall not abhor an Edomite, for he is your brother. You shall not abhor an Egyptian, because you were an alien in his land.
8 The children of the third generation born to them may enter the assembly of the Lord.
When God visits the sin it means God will punish not perpetuate a sin on innocent Christians. What does God do to Christians or those who love Him?
He will show lovingkindness to thousands to those who love Him and keep His commandments. He’s emphasizing His longsuffering and His mercy over and against His justice and wrath.
Pastor Scott Thom
- Published in Apologetics, Spiritual Growth
An Informal Guide to Study Bibles
Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path—Psalm 119:105
A long-time friend recently wrote me with some excitement that she had purchased her first study Bible. This surprised me, since she is solid Christian who holds a degree from an evangelical seminary. There are many ways to grow in our knowledge of God through the Bible, but I have found that a biblically-based study Bible is one of the best.
Christians should not only read but also study the Bible. Studying requires focused attention on what the books of the Bible reveal. One learns to follow the logic and narrative of a book’s presentation, determine what genre of literature is used by the writer, know the cultural background of the book, how one passage relates to other passages, and more. While there is a vast literature of books—academic and popular—written for a better understanding of Holy Scripture, the genre of a Study Bible offers the ardent Christian meaty resources for greater knowledge of “the living and active” Word of God (Hebrews 4:12; 2 Timothy 3:15-17).
A study Bible contains the entire text of Scripture in one of many translations. To further understanding, it adds introductions to the books of the Bible, cross references, outlines of books, study notes, maps, diagrams, special essays on various topics, indexes, and more. (A study Bible differs from a Bible commentary in that the latter does not include the entire text of Scripture. It, rather, refers to and quotes from Biblical passages for the sake of the commentary.) The number of Study Bibles has multiplied in recent decades. Which ones are worth studying? Consider five basic principles.
First, one should use a Study Bible with a solid translation. Evangelicals scholars generally endorse The New International Version, The New American Standard Bible, The English Standard Bible, and (with some caveats), the King James Bible and the New King James Bible. A translation should be distinguished from a paraphrase, such as The Living Bible, The New Living Bible, or The Message. These works, while helpful in some cases, are not the texts from which one should study the Bible in earnest.
Second, Study Bibles worth studying are prepared by scholars worth reading. Most Study Bibles are prepared a team of scholars, who are listed near the front of the Bible. Scholars, who teach Evangelical institutions, such as Denver Seminary, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, Westminster Theological Seminary, Covenant Theological Seminary, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, Talbot School of Theology, and others, are to be preferred. However, there are some solid biblical scholars who teach at more liberal institutions.
Other study Bibles are prepared by single authors, such as The MacArthur Study Bible (John MacArthur) or The Ryrie Study Bible (Charles Ryrie). When one man takes on one book as large, diverse, and consequential as the Holy Bible, he faces a daunting task. Nevertheless, it can be done well by some scholars, including the two mentioned just mentioned. On the other hand, The Scofield Reference Bible (C.I. Scofield, first published in 1909), while historically significant as the first American study Bible, was prepared by a man who never attended seminary. Much of the scholarship is out of date as well.
Third, the typesetting should be readable. As I get older, I am frustrated by how small the commentary text is in some study Bibles. If you strain to read some of the study material, then you are not likely to study it.
Fourth, while all study Bibles share common features—such as commentary, outlines, and introductions—they differ in the tools they offer and the perspective or emphasis they proffer. The emphasis may be obvious, as with The Archaeology Study Bible or The Apologetics Study Bible. The titles of some study Bibles give away their perspective, such as The Reformation Study Bible or The Spirit-Filled Study Bible (charismatic).
Fifth, some study Bibles are sparse on academic material, but are devotional in focus. The Bible itself is both intellectual gripping and devotionally rich, and a good study Bible should recognize this. However, do not expect much theological reflection or exegetical rigor in something like The Inspirational Study Bible by Pastor Max Lucado, whatever merits it may have, since it offers little to actually study.
For those who are zealous for examining the Bible in detail, learning its truths, making them known to the world, and applying them to live, consider several study Bibles.
General, multi-scholar works
- The NIV Study Bible. I have used this work more than any other. It was first published in 1985, and I have consulted it ever since. The study tools are robust and the scholars well-qualified. It was recently updated.
- The Zondervan NIV Study Bible. This features the most recent evangelical scholarship by leading scholars. It goes into more depth than The NIV Study Bible.
- The ESV Study Bible. An able work by conservative biblical scholars using the English Standard Version.
Single author works:
- The Ryrie Study Bible. Prepared by a long-time professor at Dallas Theological Seminary, it is Dispensational in focus, but much more supplicated and academic than the much earlier Dispensational work, TheScofield Reference Bible.
- The MacArthur Study Bible. Pastor John MacArthur has been teaching, preaching, and writing for over forty years. He is known for his strong—and sometimes controversial—stands on doctrine and for careful biblical preaching.
Special Emphasis Bibles
- The Reformation Study Bible. Reformed theology informs this work, which features excellent commentary and short essays on theological topics.
- The Apologetics Study Bible. The overarching theme is the rational defense of the Christian faith. Its notes and essays will equip the reader to defend the biblical worldview.
- The Spirit-Filled Bible. Written from a charismatic perspective. I find its short inserts on key biblical words particularly helpful.
- Walter Martin’s Cult Reference Bible. This out of print work, edited by the father of the evangelical counter-cult movement, brings together writers knowledgeable about cultic doctrine in relation to historic Christian orthodoxy. However, noble the goal and able the writers, the volume lacks adequate commentary and study helps.
Study Bibles Outside of Evangelicalism
- The Jewish Study Bible. While not Christian in orientation, this study of the Hebrew Bible (or Old Testament) is helpful in better understanding the Jewish mind about their sacred text.
- The Orthodox Study Bible. This underscores the relation of the Bible to Orthodoxy’s deep liturgy and its sacred tradition. One will find less material on biblical languages and exegesis than in the other study Bibles mentioned here.
- The Catholic Study Bible. Like Orthodoxy, Catholicism emphasizes church tradition more than Protestants (who affirm sola scriptura) and differs from it in key doctrines. Nevertheless, its contributors are able academically.
Study Bibles abound, and I have not mentioned all of them. Nevertheless, the principles and comments in this essay should help chart the way to learn more about Scripture through this method of study.
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Douglas Groothuis
- Published in General Ministry, Spiritual Growth
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